Episode 009: The toughest thing I’ve ever done as a parent

Child Crying - Oftentimes we have to allow our children to suffer and fall so they can learn life's lessons too

As a parent, one of the things I dread is seeing my children suffer in any way. Several years ago, I was out walking with my kids, my [then] 4-year-old daughter was running far ahead of us, and my [then] 2-year-old daughter lagged behind.

Episode 008: Letting go of power, opinion, and control

Man opening accordion

The self-actualized person is no longer worried about basic needs, but rather they are driven by their personal need to evolve and fulfill their life’s purpose or mission. Someone asked Abraham Maslow (The author of the “Hierarchy of Needs” theory / concept), “How do you if know if you are self-actualized?” Maslow responded with the following…

Episode 007: Would you invest in you?

Stock price movement shown on computer

It takes complex calculation on Wall Street to determine how much a piece of a company is worth. I would venture to say that we could probably apply some of the same logic to determine how valuable we are to the organizations we own, run, or belong to.

Episode 006: How to know if you are present, right here, right now

Kid Jumping

One of the most challenging things for someone like me is the ability to be in the present moment on a consistent basis. Often I focus on the mistakes of the past or terrorize ourselves over every future scenario. I blow through my to-do list at the expense of the things that matter most in my life – time and intentional engagement with my family, connecting with colleagues and teammates, and my own personal re-creation.

It is very challenging for me to “stop and smell the roses” because I derive such pleasure from getting things done. The problem with this is, at the end of my life, the thing I will regret most is not enjoying life more. So I stopped to think about those moments where I was actually present, and here are some of the common characteristics.

Episode 003: How I learned to like people…I didn’t like

Gift - Sometimes we are given difficult people as "gifts" to us, to show us where we need to grow

The Universe gives us unexpected gifts and they often come in the form of people we don’t like. Often those people show up in our lives to teach us or reveal something in ourselves.

Episode 002: January is the worst month for goals

Girl Pressing Barbell

Several years ago I had an important insight. January is the worst month for setting goals.

It was November 2012 when I decided to try a different approach to New Years Resolutions. Like all of us at one time or another, each year I would fall victim to the New Year’s Resolution trap. This podcast discusses how I escaped from that trap.

Episode 001: The Grassroots Wisdoms

Dog in Grass

https://markabotros.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/S01_01_GrassrootsWisdom.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: RSSWhen Leadership is done well, it produces great projects, great companies, great families, great communities, and even great nations. Every group, regardless of size, needs Leadership. H. Ross Perot, the recently deceased founder of EDS, built an empire through great leadership.    The foundation of Perot’s leadership philosophy is […]